How Getting More Referrals Is Easier Than You Think
Getting more referrals is a process.
Do you have enough leads? I think it’s a safe bet that you don’t. This is the number one biggest problem network marketers have don’t you know. This blog post will show you how getting more referrals might be easier than you think.
Referrals are a great source for leads but largely overlooked . Could it be “The No” you get while prospecting throws you for a loop and you don’t think to ask for the referral? I know it stings to get ” No” as a response but try not to let it disrupt your composure…. The thing to do is train yourself instead is ask for a referral? You’re missing a great opportunity if you don’t do this! Never fear,experience will help you with this but you must begin and don’t forget to ask.
I recently read a book titled “Endless Referrals” by Bob Burg. As the title implys Bob Burg is an expert at getting referrals. His book is full of great tips.
Getting more referrals is a process and there are steps to take before asking for the referral and also there are different ways to go about getting the referral. To get more referrals you must begin by building relationships but that is what network marketing is all about anyway, right? I’m sure right now you have many people on your list who might have said no but could actually give you more leads for your business.
Below is an example of one of the ways you can use networking events to begin the process of getting more referrals.
You’ve gone to a networking event and you’ve met some great people who could be potential customers or perhaps join your business. What do you do? Do you start the pitch? NO that would be the kiss of death. The best thing to do in this situation is not talk about yourself at all! The key to being remembered is simply to listen and ask questions. Let the other guy do the talking.
Listening is a great asset and it’s a key component to getting more referrals. You make a bigger impression by listening, everyone wants to talk about themselves, resist the urge to dominate the conversation. One of the best bosses I ever had hardly ever talked, but his skill at listening was world class…you always felt better after talking to him. He would sit there and nod his head at every sentence, you just knew he heard you and understood your problem. What a great guy!
The art of asking questions and keeping the spotlight on your new potential prospect is also a great skill to develop. You should strive for asking questions 99% of the time. Your prospect will remember you in a favorable way and they might not even realize why.
It’s also important to meet people at the networking event who are centers of influence. You will recognize them by the large group of people constantly surrounding them. People who are centers of influence know many people and are a great resource for referrals, so get to know them and have them get to know you. Make a positive impression by asking questions and listening.
After you’ve left the networking event your work begins for getting more referrals.
Do this after every networking event. Send a personalized thank you note to the people you met at the event.
As Bob Burg explains in his book this is Basic Sales Training 101 but hardly anyone does it and that’s why you will stand out from the crowd.
There is a proper way to make this lasting impression as explained below:
#1 Design a note card that measures 8 X3.5″ Put your picture on it (very important) and company logo on the card.
#2 Keep the “Thank You” short and sweet. example “Hi ____, Thank you, it was a pleasure meeting you. If I can ever refer business your way, I certainly will.” Keep your message understated and don’t try to sell anything.
#3 Make sure you mail the card the day of the event/meeting so the recipient gets the note the next day. 
This card needs to be put into a #10 envelope and hand addressed and hand stamped, reason being if it’s sent as a post card it could be easily tossed into the trash. A hand addressed envelope on the other hand makes it a mystery which makes it much more likely to be opened and read. You don’t want it to look like junk mail.
I think this is a great idea for getting more referrals and I have used it in my own business. People definitely will remember you the next time they see you and I have made sales this way.
You might say well I really don’t have time to write everyone I meet while out networking but if you prepare ahead of time you do have the time. You can prepare by taking a stack of the notes and writing the message in mass. When the time comes to send them out all you have to do is add the name and address the envelope.
Keep a stack of notes ready to send.
This is such a simple thing, writing a thank you note but it is this and other things like this that really separates the successful people from those who are not so successful.
I think you can see how these tips can go a long way to set the stage for asking your contacts and prospects for referrals. There are many more in the book!
Are you in business where you need “offline” tips and tricks? If you are let me know what some of your problems are or share the things you have used to make a great impression on your prospects.
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Tonya Stephens
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Hi Tonya,
Great Post Tonya about getting referral and as you said, it is largely overlooked. I am guilty of overlooking it myself.
We need to be able to generate a strong, steady lead flow in order to get the momentum we need for our business to grow.
The problem is when you get a NO, you tend to forget to ask about the referral. I tried so many times on the phone although I prepared myself that if I get a NO, I will ask for a referral, but the effect of the NO just makes me forget it. I know I should not be attached to the result and just ask.
Another great points you pointed out is the listening and the asking of questions and both these skills are adored by prospects. They want to be listened to and they want you to have interest in them or care about them by asking questions.
And the best tip you gave here is to send a thank you card to the people you met and this will make you stand out from the crowd. I love this tip and I totally agree with doing it.
Thanks for sharing these great tips and I will try my best next time to ask for referrals. I have been overlooking this tactic.
Be Blessed,
Neamat
Hi Neamat,
Yep when we get that NO we freeze! That’s the part you have to get over….
Write a note a keep by your phone….ask for a referral.
Make it a habit to ask..you never know where it will lead you.
I love the thank you card idea as well and use it after my networking events.The book has so many practical ideas, it’s a great read.
Thanks again for your great comments!
Tonya
Excellent blog Tonya with excellent tips and advice! I love this tip and most certainly going to use the “thank you” note after my upcoming networking events.
Hi Debra,
Welcome to my blog,
Thank you for your great comments.
I love that tip as well about the Thank You note so wanted to share it with everybody!
Visit again soon,
Tonya
I agree with Neamat Tonya, great post.
I know that a lot of people either don’t think about asking for referrals or they’re really nervous about it. I have a feeling that if they handle this process like you explained here then they will eventually get past that initial fear.
Listening is the art to building great relationships and those people will definitely remember you well.
What a great share and I’ll be sure to pass this post onto my friends in network marketing. You never know, they may need this nudge.
~Adrienne
Hi Adrienne,
Thank you for your great comments!
How do you manage to get to everyone?
I think everybody needs to be reminded to ask for referrals, it’s something we have to train ourselves to do. It has to become a habit!
Thanks for sharing this with others that is why I choose this subject…I think it’s a great one.
Have a great weekend!
Tonya
Great tip Tonya! And so true how most people never follow up! I think it’s about 1 in 100 that do – from personal experience – so if you are that one… You are bound to make an impression! ~Robin~
Hi Robin,
Welcome to my blog,
Thank you for commenting.
I know, you’re right, the follow up is critical…wow, can’t believe those who avoid this step.
Between asking for referrals and doing a follow up with your contacts you could actually build a great business for yourself.
Hope to see you again soon,
Tonya
Hi Tonya,
Referrals are definitely forgotten about my many. I haven’t made this practice as I’ve been intimidated by it after I get the “no”. After reading your post, I am realizing how important this is and it’s something I need to overcome!
Thanks so much for this information and the wonderful tips you gave.
Have a great weekend!
Jess
Hi Jess,
I know how you feel…that’s why I wrote this blog post.
This is a great tip for getting more referrals, we just have to train ourselves to ask and make it a habit!
Write a note as a reminder and put it by your phone when doing the follow up call.
You are welcome and thank you for your great commenting!
Tonya
HI Tonya
Great post!
Your Boss would have been a great Leader, listening is the most talked but the least practiced skill, everyone wants to be heard these days.
Thanks for your great information.
Sapna
Hi Sapna,
He was the best! I can’t tell you how effective he was with his listening skills!
Thank you so much for your great comments!
Have a great weekend!
Tonya
Sonya, that’s a simple but very effective tip. There are many offline ways to establish a client list, and that’s one of the best. Face-to-face, then the down-played follow-up.
Another way of course, is leaving that card (suitably worded) at other informal public events. Simple and easy local marketing.
Great stuff, well done!
Des
Hi Des,
Welcome to my blog and thank you for commenting.
Sounds like you have a lot of experience in network marketing.
I appreciate that!
It is nice to have such an experienced person comment on this subject.
How did you find my blog?
Hope to see you here again.
Tonya
I love this post Tonya! There really isn’t any better way to drive more leads to your business than by teaching others how to give you your perfect “prospect” on a silver platter
Hi Brian,
Thank you so much for your great comments!
This is a great tip one I’ve used often and it brings offline sales to my business!
It’s also a great way to cultivate a relationship with possible business partners.
have a great day!
Tonya
You remind me that we tend to overlook what is right beneath our noses. Asking for that referral may lead to a big payoff.
Hi Margaret,
Welcome to my blog and thank you for your great comments!
Yes we tend to overlook the obvious sometimes…if we only keep thing simple we might be surprised by our results.
Sometimes it is the “little things”
Thanks for your great comments!
Tonya
What a cool idea! I will have to be more organised next time I network. And a good reminder to ask for referrals if there’s a ‘no’ first time, thanks.
Tonya,
I enjoyed reading your post. I learned a great tip. Just make people feel appreciated. This is the key. I remember a saying by Steven Covey: “Seek first to understand than to be understood”. Giving comes before receiving.
Awesome concept and great card of yours on the picture. I will follow your advice. Enjoy your day!
Tonya your card looks fab and that would be so memorable – great idea.
When I was doing a lot of in person networking I always made it a point of connecting on LinkedIn straight afterwards and used to recommend that people do that – amazing how many would say oh what a good idea I never though to do that – yet it is so simple a thing!
Sue
Hi Sue,
Thank you so much for your kind comments!
Those simple courteous things do stand out in this day of fast paced…me first world.
The book is full of great advice and tips!
Thanks again,
Tonya
Great post!
In my opinion, listening is one of the most important parts of commmunication. But nowadays nobody wants to listen, everyone likes speaking about himself..
Hi Nick,
Thank you for visiting my blog and for your comments!
I think you are correct, most people are not interested in listening, it is a skill that must be developed.
Thanks again,
Tonya
It’s very difficult to develop this skill..)