MLM Secret | If you want to be successful you have to step out of your comfort zone.

Did you know “It’s OK to make a fool of yourself sometimes?”


MLM Secret Do you really want success? If your answer is”Yes” then you need to know it’s Ok to look foolish at times and it’s Ok to do things that make you really nervous but if you’re like most people  you would rather avoid this exercise and stay in your comfort zone. The truth is staying where you’re at is not going to take you where you want to go.

We all have the opportunity to make a fool of ourselves when we are new and just learning something. Anytime you venture out of your comfort zone you are at risk of feeling fear and this can make you very uncomfortable.  This is a learned  response and now it’s time to learn something new.

If you’re willing to take that extra step out of your comfort zone however the rewards can be life changing. This blog post will look at ways you can overcome some self imposed limitations and grow in the direction of your success.

Here’s an example of what you need to do:  imagine a baby learning to walk.  First he takes a step and falls, he takes another step and falls again. He does this continuously until he builds the strength to take his first step. . He improves his balance with every try and  he keeps trying until his legs and muscles are stronger and stronger.This goes on until he takes two steps then  multiple steps in a row.  Wow, now he’s walking! He is successful, he did not quit.

The only difference between the baby and us is this, he hasn’t learned what foolish feels like, he hasn’t learned fear. He isn’t bothered by  failing he just keeps on trying until he reaches his goal.

When the babies’ parents laugh at him he will just laugh too. The baby thinks it’s fun to step out of his comfort zone because he isn’t afraid and he knows it will give him freedom to roam wherever he wants to go. There’s a big reward for the baby learning how to walk.

There are so many examples of this trial and error pattern in our lives. If you give up at the first sign of struggle you will never reach your goals in life. Living is a process and learning anything new is as well a process. We develop at our own speed, don’t judge yourself by others who have more time and experience in the area you are trying to master.

No one wants to be laughed at but sometimes it is just part of the process. We have learned fear and that fear can become a big stumbling block to our success.We all have a fear of being annoying or just plain silly but the truth is sometimes being a little out there and even a little crazy can be an an asset to you and your business. One of the benefits in your MLM business is you will be remembered! That can be a very good thing.

I remember a fellow I met at a recent convention  “The Fuzzy Hat Guy”. Some of you may know him.He certainly got everyone’s attention. I personally would not wear a “Fuzzy Hat” like the one he wore but it worked for him. He is known as “The Fuzzy Hat Guy” and is building his brand around that image. You don’t forget him and that’s a guarantee.

Recently I submitted a video to a great video group I’m in. I’ll be honest I really had a lot of  fear and anxiety  because these people really know their stuff, they produce some awesome videos that look professional but I posted the video anyway. The critiques where brutally honest! That’s what I wanted but whoa, was the video that bad? Should I just give up? No, I will now learn more and practice more and become better. You must develop this attitude that you will do it until you learn how to be the best you can be. Don’t give up!

“Step out of your comfort zone?”  What does this really mean and how can it help you in your MLM business? Let’s take a look at some of the ways you can accomplish this and how this MLM Secret is a necessary part of growing beyond your limitations.

Listed below are some of the ways you can begin to step out of your comfort zone.

MLM Secret |  Take Action

Quit making excuses. Stop procrastinating.

Start with baby steps and even if you fall down get up again and keep moving. Action is an important part of stepping out of your comfort zone. Even if you feel uncomfortable it is necessary to do it anyway so you can grow beyond your limitations. By doing something you feel is uncomfortable and then developing into having success at it you will gradually change your thoughts about yourself and what you perceive as your limitations.

 MLM Secret | Learn and study your subject.

 The more you become an expert in your niche the more  knowledge you have and the more you can share this with others.

Having knowledge will help you gain confidence. Then practice, practice, practice what you’ve learned and start teaching others. Here’s a big MLM Secret  “You must become a leader,”  do things like joining Toast Masters and learn public speaking. If you can speak in front of people you can do just about anything. Get the training you need to obtain success.

 MLM Secret |Write down your goals.

Use a pen and paper. Also outline what you are willing to do to accomplish your goals, then put a date on when you plan to obtain the goal.

Writing your goals down is a way to help your  conscious mind understand what needs to be done and it will help your  sub conscious mind find a way to do it even if it means you have to step out of your comfort zone

 MLM Secret | Follow a mentor.

 Identify someone in your business group who is having success and immolate that person.

Develop a relationship with them and ask questions. By following a path that has already been forged it helps you to know your goals are possible.

 MLM Secret | Don’t forget to do what scares you.

One of the points already covered in the MLM Secret above was public speaking. If you’re nervous and feel scared then  you are probably on the right path. Just think once you have gone past your limits of today you will never have the same fear you once had. The key is to keep going and reach higher and higher.

Don’t let fear stop you from reaching your goals and success.

Make it a habit to continually grow in your abilities.

Zig Ziggler said this, “Remember that failure is an event, not a person.”

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